Addendum to That Last Post

In case anyone is wondering, I don't think the guy is a schmuck for being low libido. Some people just are low libido, like some are high libido, and its not a character flaw or anybody's fault. I think he is a schmuck for making so little effort to meet his wife's needs.

It sounded like the sex therapy and the like was a long time ago and now he has sex with her once a year. Its him being so passive about the situation and making virtually no effort to meet her needs while claiming to love his wife that annoys me. I would have felt quite differently about the article if he had said:

Yet I have more interest in anything than in sex -- I'd rather clean out the basement than make love. So I don't really initiate, and I sometimes say no, but I try not to let her go without for long stretches. And sometimes I manage to enjoy it.

or possibly:

Yet I have more interest in anything than in sex -- I'd rather clean out the basement than make love. So once a week I go down on her or help her out with my hands. Its not my favourite activity, but I do it because I love her and I don't do it grudgingly.

or possibly:

Yet I have more interest in anything than in sex -- I'd rather clean out the basement than make love. So, by mutual agreement, she has a boyfriend on the side, purely in order to meet her sexual needs, and I don't make her feel bad about it.